Sandi Amorim is an instigator, a coach and writer on a mission to crush ‘someday thinking’ from the face of the Earth!
She has more than a decade of experience as a solution-focused coach and NLP practitioner.
But that’s not all!
She’s also a photographer and is creating an interactive course inspired by the work of Hafiz and beautifying her class material with the amazing photos she takes and shares with her friends almost daily.
Sandi I have been friends for two years, and at the end of last year, we started co-creating online programs for women solopreneurs such as Reset. Revive. Restart. and the Circle of Cohorts.
What strikes me the most about Sandi is her ever-fiery passion to inspire women to give up their limiting beliefs, stories and excuses.
Day by day she provides them with insight, tips and resources and helps them understand and eliminate the fear of failure and sometimes the fear of success.
And she comes from the heart in all she says and does.
You can find more about Sandi by visiting her buzzing website called Deva Coaching, a place where heart-warming and fear-busting conversations take place on both personal development and business growth.
In this interview with Sandi Amorim, you’ll find out about:
- how her photography business enabled her to become a coach
- why training is not enough to become a coach
- why her independent streak became a challenge and what she did about it
- what her internal guidance system consists of
- how launching a blog unleashed her creativity
- what she gets her energy from
- what is in the works for her, and
- what she has now that she wished she had earlier
INTERVIEW WITH SANDI AMORIM
When and why did you start your own business?
I’d taken the leap into self-employment a couple of years before becoming a coach, my passion at that time being photography. In its two years of existence, my photography business taught me so much that would later help make my coaching business a success.
One of the lessons showed up in the feedback I heard often from my clients; they loved the photos I took of them, and let me know how unusual that was. That intrigued me and as I began to pay attention, I realized the secret was the conversations we had.
I talked to my clients during the photo shoot; asking questions, getting them to think of things that felt good, places they loved, happy times – anything other than the fact that a camera was pointed at them. It worked by putting them at ease so that they could in turn show up, natural and at their best.
Eventually, the conversations became more satisfying than the photography, and as the saying goes, when one door closes another opens, and I discovered coaching.
One weekend into my coach training I registered my business, on fire with this new passion, and it’s been 12 years of doing work I love since then.
What is it that gives you your unique edge and sets your business apart?
In the beginning, the challenge was explaining what coaching was to people. As a relatively new profession, a lot of my energy went into educating people on the work I did and how it could benefit them.
Now, thanks to the Internet, the challenge has shifted to standing out from the crowd. There are thousands of coaches and coach-like businesses offering their services online, and it is essential to know what sets you apart.
The first thing that sets me apart is my passion for training.
I have spent a lot of time and energy on learning many ways to help people heal and move forward in the past 15 years. From neuro-linguistic programming to leadership training to communication skills, I love the field of human potential.
But I also truly believe that training isn’t enough; you’ve got to have a fire in your belly and a willingness to do what it takes to keep your dream alive and to keep making a difference. That’s how I’ve continued to grow and develop an online presence, while I’ve witnessed so many return to jobs and corporate life.
My willingness to do what it takes also sets me apart as a coach, not just as a solopreneur. I am willing to say and do things that make a difference, even if it takes being with discomfort. That’s what makes a difference for clients.
All the training in the world will not help if the coach isn’t willing to lead by example and go beyond what’s expected. It’s this passion for making a difference that lead to my commitment to obliterating ‘someday thinking’ from the face of the earth.
What is the biggest challenge you’ve experienced as a solopreneur? How did you solve it? And what was the lesson you learned?
The greatest challenge, especially as a solopreneur with a strong independent streak, was letting go of doing everything myself.
Reaching out and asking for help, working with other professionals, learning how to collaborate – all these steps helped my business grow, and helped me become more creative and better at business!
What is your compass for finding your direction in your business?
My values act as an internal guidance system, always leading towards more of what I want in my life and business. They let me know, physically in my body, when I’m making decisions that are not aligned.
I have learned to trust them implicitly, and have developed a practice to deepen this further. I’ve also become more interested in developing intuition as I find it closely related to the connection to values.
How does your business support and nourish your inner life as a creative person?
After years of having my online presence consist of a simple website, launching a blog unleashed my creativity in a way I hadn’t expected. Writing became a daily practice, and my love of photography returned as I began to take images with my blog in mind.
This new connection between images and words has been incredibly satisfying, and my value of creativity has been recharged.
What drains and what energizes you? How do you tailor your business so that it keeps you energized?
I believe that everyone and everything is either giving you energy or draining your energy, and it’s worth the time to pay attention to both in business.
When I’m taking actions each day that align with my values I feel a surge of energy that lets me know I’m on the right track.
As an extrovert with introvert tendencies, I’ve learned to balance my online and solo interactions with very select in-person interactions to keep my extrovert side happy.
When I connect in both ways, my energy stays pretty consistent and plugged in!
I look at my schedule each week as a creation, and I choose very consciously what goes into it.
I remember years ago how I’d often feel drained and overwhelmed by my schedule. Now, it energizes me as I review it on Monday morning and see all that’s on my plate for the week.
From the people I see in person to my clients (mostly virtual) to the creative work I do to grow my business, I’ve done my best to honor that which energizes me. It’s not always easy to set my schedule this way, but it’s worth the effort.
What is your definition of a “thriving solopreneur”?
My online dictionary reminds me that “thrive” means: to prosper; be fortunate or successful; to grow or develop vigorously; flourish, and I totally agree!
I think it’s important though to consider what this means in all areas of you business.
For example, people often fixate on the financial aspect of prospering, but when you consider all the areas of your business and life, how else does it show up?
For me, thriving has meant primarily having the freedom to do what I want when I want.
Of course, this takes having the business generate the income needed to follow through, so it definitely includes making money. And I use that word intentionally as so many creative solopreneurs struggle with this, and/or avoid this aspect of their business.
Focusing on abundance and prosperity may feel good, but you’ve actually got to know how much money you need to grow your business and have the kind of lifestyle you want. Otherwise, why are you in business for yourself?
What are your plans for the next two years?
My plans for the next two years are mostly creative, with three writing projects in the works; an interactive course inspired by the work of Hafiz, a collaboration with my husband who is also a photographer, and a book that is part memoir, part coaching, on what it takes to thrive in relationship.
I am also inspired by my collaboration with you Cigdem, and look forward to how we can help our members thrive together in the Circle of Cohorts!
If you could start your business all over again, what is one thing you would do differently? Why?
If I could start over again, I’d get the right kind of support, and get online sooner. The lone ranger syndrome that afflicts many creative solopreneurs can keep you small.
In the three years that I’ve been actively developing my business online, I have grown and connected with more people than the many years beforehand.
Connection is one of my core values and it has really helped me shine online.
What is one nugget of wisdom you can offer a creative solopreneur who is just beginning?
Be yourself – reliably, without apology, without comparison. When you show up authentically with all your gifts and geniusy self, people can’t help but take notice!
And one last tip: Get the right kind of support from the beginning! Don’t waste your time and energy in reinventing the wheel. Instead, reach out and connect with others who can help you grow and thrive.


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Squeeee! I love any opportunity to get inside your brain Sandi Amorim!
It’s so interesting that you bring up this idea of what success looks like – in both the less tangible sense and in the financial sense.
As I’m still in year one of my coaching practice, I realize that I had truly “gone with the flow” reaping all of the less tangible benefits of success for the first 9 months without really getting honest with myself on the financial piece (I’m fortunate that savings and great freelance work supplement what I’m building in the meantime).
As of TODAY, I just went through and tallied up all my income and expenses for the last year and now have a clear picture of what it has taken so far to get me where I am – and more importantly where I want to take my business in the coming year!
Thank you for the reminder – I love you and all that you do
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My brain is an open book…wait, should I say that
I actually do love to share what I’ve learned, and not just the good stuff. It’s important for us to get real about what it takes to have a successful AND sustainable business. If we want to do the work we love longterm and make a difference for others, we have to make a difference for ourselves by honouring what we need first. Not always easy, but since everything takes some amount of effort why not put it to good use?
Getting real about what “thriving” is and what it takes to thrive is essential if we want to enjoy building a business.
Financial goals and the so-called “six figures” are mentioned over and over again in the blogosphere, but “thriving” is much more than that. And Sandi is, in my opinion, one of the role models for thriving from the inside out.
What a great interview! It’s so cool to hear how your creativity and business savvy and values all blend together, Sandi!
I also am curious about how you use NLP…I’ve been interested in that but haven’t yet followed the thread.
Can’t wait to hear more about your Hafiz class. Sounds intriguing. Please do spread the word when it’s ready!
Thanks for this great interview, Cigdem!
You know, it’s a lot easier to ask the questions
And thank God for values! They’ve gotten me through some challenging times in 12 years, and have become more and more integral with each passing year. We’ve come a long way together.
As for the NLP, I’ve always just woven it into my work rather than used it as a selling feature. For me it’s a powerful set of tools that I pull out as needed.
Hafiz and I are so looking forward to the Free Write Fling! It’s going to be an awesome month with you Cynthia!
I’m glad you enjoyed the interview, Cynthia! I’d love to host you here too for the Solopreneur Spotlight series.
I’m also looking forward to that Hafiz class. Having some insider info makes me even more impatient!
What a pleasure to be here, Cigdem – and what a great interview. I admire Sandi anyway – and really enjoyed getting to know her better. Sandi – you’re a great inspiration. I always feel I can touch your energy and joie de vivre.
Thank you for sharing yourself so wonderfully!
Love, Vidya
Welcome dear Vidya. Great to have you here.
Joie de vivre is, indeed, what Sandi is about! In life and in business. She lives, breathes and spreads in whatever she does, doesn’t she?
Dear Vidya, you are a breath of fresh air in my blogging world, so I’m glad if this interview creates an even deeper connection. I told Cigdem I did feel a bit ‘exposed’ in this interview – and no, that’s not intended as a photography pun
I know people use the words authenticity and transparency a lot, but for me they really are foundational. What am I here for if not to be real when I share myself with others? It may sometimes be uncomfortable in the moment, but it always cracks me open just a little bit more and ultimately, that’s what I love.
Sandi, I completely understand that and that’s what draws me to you. Thank you. yes, I am looking forward to the Hafiz connection!
Being authentic takes a lot of pressure off – pressure we can channel into more enjoyable and productive pursuits. (aww. did that sound very starched-shirt?
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Hugs!
I know no other way, than to be myself.
Fantastic interview! How fun to get inside of Mz. Sandi Amorim’s fiery brain for a moment! Super excited to see this Hafiz photo project/class.
I’ve also been checking into NLP as it has intrigued me for a long time. Didn’t know you were also schooled in yet another interesting technique.
Thanks Cigdem & Sandi for a great read here!
Thank you Sarah!
Sandi, I guess you are expected to include NLP as a topic on your blog! (wink wink
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Cigdem, I just might have to include it now that the secret’s out
Thanks again my friend for asking such thought provoking questions. It was a great experience to be on the other side of the interview!
Haha, that’s a couple of people inside my brain now…it’s getting crowded in there
Hafiz and I have been dancing together for some time, and I’m so excited to make it public. Soon my friend, soon!
I highly recommend NLP training. It is a skillset that makes a difference to anything you apply it to, and in many ways has been the foundation of my coaching practice. Let me know if you want training suggestions. There are many good books written on NLP, especially to use within a coaching framework!
Can so relate to the extrovert with introvert tendencies comment. Something I have to dance with myself. Always a pleasure to listen to Sandi’s take on things. Thanks for sharing.
Ali,
I’ve noticed the last couple of times I’ve done the Myers Briggs assessment that while I am still an extrovert I seem to be inching my way closer and closer to introvert. As I grow older (and wiser!) the introvert in me is claiming ground and becoming stronger, and I am enjoying the shift. The dance is shifting and I sometimes step on my own toes if I ignore what I need. But I’m listening and learning each time I get out on the dance floor